Hello!

Thank you for visiting my website. My name is Hritik Singh. I was lost and clueless about how to navigate the dating realm and was frustrated with the fact that there was almost no one in India who was teaching people how to date effectively. I was annoyed at the realization that we study Mathematics for 16 years or more to grasp the fundamentals of the subject which serve us throughout our lives, we subject ourselves to intense disciplinary structures and get the necessary training for getting competent at any particular domain, and yet, when it comes to dating and relationships, we are just expected to know things. We are expected to operate intuitively based on the codependent conditioning that we have received from the movies and our culture. We operate solely based on attraction never taking the time to realize that many a time, our attraction buds are dysfunctional in themselves because of our attachment wounding. When things go south in our love lives, instead of reaching out to a professional, we shoot a WhatsApp message to our naïve friends who are just as clueless and wounded (if not more) as us.

So, that was my life. I, too, was surrounded by a plethora of dating hacks, strategies, and ineffective advices which encouraged the same low self-worth behaviours that further aggravated my attachment injury. Because of not receiving any proper education regarding dating/relationships, I remained naïve and clueless, and hence, kept inviting unnecessary suffering for myself. I didn’t understand how attraction works, what boundaries are, what is gaslighting, how to resolve conflicts, what is the right and healthy way to pursue people which is rooted in authenticity and high self-worth, not games and deception, when to let go of a relationship, how to deal with insecurities in a relationship, what is the difference between fear and intuition, how to be assertive, how to recover from a break-up, what are red flags, etc.

I got fed up of my dysfunctional patterns and that’s when I decided to genuinely study relationships. I was already into the self-help and personal development world since I was 16. But I didn’t focus too much on relationships. However, when I kept getting hurt in the same pattern, I made a commitment to myself to study relationships as thoroughly as possible. I read whatever I could get my hands on, I watched tons of videos each and every day, I personally texted coaches/therapists on Instagram and scheduled sessions with them to better my understanding, I enrolled in online courses offered by coaches. And to be honest, initially, all this came from a very selfish place. I just wanted to help myself. That’s it. But I always had the habit of documenting things since I was in high school. So, whatever I was learning, I kept documenting it. That’s when I had the realization that I can help thousands of people if I just start publishing all the material that I had created over the years.

Fortunately, people started resonating with my work and I was astounded to witness an overwhelmingly positive response. That’s when I decided to become a relationship coach. I received my training and certification from one of the reputed institutes accredited by ICF (International Coaching Certification) and have been coaching people ever since.